Jennifer Lopez’s mom’s cutting marriage advice to the singer revealed – as her family fears ‘toll’ of her crumbling romance with Ben Affleck has made her ‘lose sight of who she is’

Jennifer Lopez’s mom Guadalupe Rodríguez is urging her daughter to leave Ben Affleck over fears the singer is losing sight of herself, according to insiders who claim her family believe she deserves better than a man who has decided to ‘throw in the towel’ instead of fighting to save their relationship.

The On The Floor singer, 54, and the double Oscar winner, 51, have been plagued for months by reports their two year marriage is in crisis, with pictures of them without their wedding rings and living in separate homes further fueling speculation they are on the verge of divorce.

Jennifer Lopez’s mom Guadalupe Rodríguez is imploring her daughter to cut ties with her husband Ben Affleck, insiders claim

The singer, 54, and the double Oscar winner, 51, have been rumored to be on the rocks for months, with recent reports claiming they are ‘on the edge of divorce’

‘He was not the person she built him up to be. It’s taken too much of a toll on her and because of this she has lost sight of who she is and what she stands for.’
The source said Lopez’s sisters Leslie Ann and Lynda share their mom’s concerns and fear the singer and actress has lost perspective on what her marriage has become.

‘Jennifer currently feels like Ben does not deserve her and her sisters agree,’ they continued.

‘They want Jennifer to be happy, of course, but they feel their sister is getting so caught up in what it was supposed to be that she isn’t seeing it for what it is now.

‘They want her to file for divorce first and get on with her life – focus on her kids and career.’
The source finished: ‘It’s upsetting to her family and Jennifer that Ben cannot see there is a woman who is loved by millions that will love him eternally – but he would rather throw in the towel than actually just try to fix

The claims mark a significant U-turn by Lopez’s mom who last year revealed on national television that she ‘prayed’ for two decades for her daughter to reconcile with the Gone Girl actor.

An insider told DailyMail.com that Lopez’s mom ‘wants her to file for divorce first and get on with her life ¿ focus on her kids and career’